Medically Reviewed by: Ella Shire
When it comes to saying goodbye to someone you you love there can be a lot of uncertainty, from what to say at funeral, how to plan a funeral and even what to wear to a one. Although it may seem strange to be worrying about what to wear at such a sad time, a thoughtful approach to dressing is a mark of respect to the person you are honouring. If there isn’t a dress code, we recommend wearing traditional black or dark colours such as navy or dark purple, and it’s always smart to have a scarf or umbrella to hand, weather permitting.
What matters most is that you showed up, but when it comes to dressing appropriately, take the attention off yourself and try to avoid anything statement such as large bows, embellishments or a pop of colour anywhere on the outfit.
If a knee-length or midi dress with tights isn’t for you, try a pair of wide-leg trousers or culottes with an elegant blouse. Both options can be worn with a blazer or a smart jacket. When it comes to accessories keep it minimal, however if you are a close relative to the family sometimes a hat or an understated fascinator is a beautiful finishing touch to an outfit. But remember the number one rule to funeral dressing – less is more.
Luckily style writer Ella Shire is on hand to help master wardrobe etiquette for a funeral. Ella enjoys writing fashion content for all ages, including women over 50. After working on many photoshoots with mature women and helping them feel and look their best, you can put your trust in Ella that she will suggest the best pieces on the high street for you.
Best for simple dress for a funeral
Walliswww.wallis.co.uk
This is a great option if you want to wear a simple black dress but with elevated features. The sheer chiffon bishop sleeves are stylish but still coincide with respectful dressing. While the dress skims the figure and is cinched in at the waist with a metallic buckle belt. We suggest styling with a pair of black court heels or smart ballet pumps and tights.
Best black trousers for a funeral
Monsoonwww.monsoon.co.uk
It’s hard to find a good pair of tailored trousers on the high street but this Monsoon option takes smart to a whole new level. Invest in this pair and you can wear again and again styled multiple ways for different events. Shop in sizes 8-24 and there’s even a jacket to pair it with. Best thing about the trousers? The good size pockets so you don’t need to worry about a bag.
Best black top for a funeral
Phase Eightwww.phase-eight.com
The neckline and sleeves scream sophisticated chic and this Phase Eight blouse will elevate any pair of tailored trousers in your wardrobe. This option is great for all year around and can also be paired with a midi skirt and boot heels. The crochet pattern brings a hint of femininity and grace, perfect for the occasion.
Best midi dress for a funeral
Mango at John Lewiswww.johnlewis.com
Keep things simple and sophisticated with an element of comfort with this Mango midi dress. The classic round neck is flattering and gives you the option to wear small earrings such as pearls or a small simple hoop. A baguette shoulder bag and court heels or flats will work perfectly with this dress.
Best jersey dress for a funeral
M&Swww.marksandspencer.com
A simple black dress but with texture and flattering ruching detail on the side. With added stretch in the fabric, this dress will ensure comfort as well as style. This dress could easily become a wardrobe staple and can be dressed up or down in the future. But for this occasion, we recommend styling with black flats or a heel and a simple clutch.
Best high-waisted dress for a funeral
Ro&Zo at M&Swww.marksandspencer.com
If you want a slightly fancier dress then this one is for you. Ro&Zo’s flattering midi dress sculpts your figure with it’s corset-style fitted waist and high neck. Although the dress has short sleeves it can still work all year around if you were to pair it with a cardigan or longline coat. This dress will make you feel and look your best.
Best spring/summer dress for a funeral
Finery Londonwww.finerylondon.com
A simple yet stylish option with seam detail that accentuates your figure with a feminine v-neckline. Available in sizes 8-26 this dress is wearable for this occasion and beyond, so it’s worth investing in. This dress is ideal for a spring or summer funeral but can be worn in autumn and winter too with a cropped jacket or a shawl over the shoulders. The length is perfect and shows just the right amount of leg. A simple pair of earrings and a bracelet would complement this dress perfectly.
Ella Shire is a Style Writer at Bauer Media and enjoys styling as part of her role. She loves trying out the trending pieces from all the latest high street drops, as well as being Bauer’s resident rental and pre-loved fashion expert.